Continue reading]]> Charlene Freestone, a cloth diaper expert, an admin on the diapering group, Chic Utah’s Moms on facebook, and owner of the blog C, G & Mr. B, graciously allowed me to take some videos of her beginning Cloth Diapers Class held in Lehi, Utah.  You will see 6 videos here in this post that were taken that night, all with a different and helpful theme about cloth diapering.  Links to the diapers and items used in the videos are in the description of the videos themselves, so be sure to check those out (click on the title of each individual video to get to the links).

 
CLOTH DIAPER BRANDS, STYLES, & BASICS

CLOTH DIAPER ACCESSORIES YOU WILL NEED

HOW TO WASH CLOTH DIAPERS (WITH REGULAR DETERGENT)

HOW TO CLOTH DIAPER A NEWBORN (EASILY AND INEXPENSIVELY)

HOW TO CLOTH DIAPER TWINS SUCCESSFULLY!

CLOTH DIAPERING OVERNIGHT

Continue reading]]> This post is a little bit about how to prioritize your time and a little bit of me venting…

I am a busy Mom.  I have diapers to change, kids to feed, a large home and yard to keep up. I work part-time. I have food allergies which makes everything a little difficult.  I do home school with my kids.  I am active in the LDS church and local community which require a lot of my time.  I am always in a hurry and I am always stressed from the moment I wake up in the morning to the minute I go to bed (and even in my sleep, I dream about being stressed!).  I am responsible for so many things and sometimes it feels like the world is on my shoulders.  I don’t know how long I can continue like this as something has got to give!  I am pretty sure this is not the way God intended me to feel.  I think he wants me to enjoy life, to learn all I can, and to be happy.   I can’t say I am unhappy, per se, but I do feel that I could improve so many areas in my life.  This is something I recently did a post on being the “perfect” Mom, which I do not believe is attainable or even desirable (at least in the sense that most of us look at it in).  Over the last few years I have really leaned towards living a more simple and meaningful life.  I fail miserable sometimes, but I also make huge strides at other times.  Over time, I inch closer and closer to this goal.

While out on a dinner date with my husband last week I expressed to him that I felt like I was running, running, running all the time trying to keep up with my life and I felt as if I wasn’t really accomplishing anything of value.  He is super laid back, so I didn’t expect him to be able to relate.  He said a lot of times he feels the same way, but he felt like if he was doing the most important things first, it wouldn’t matter so much if he let the little things go.  That conversation prompted me to reevaluate my priorities quite a bit.  Do I really need to do all the things I do?

My Aunt Patricia frequently reminds me that Buddhist wisdom teaches that “who you be” is so much more important than what you do or what you have.  Who you are has value and merit just in itself.  When you work on that, all other thing fall into place somehow.  It’s important for me to hear when I complain about my life being too ‘busy’.  I have to remind myself that I create my busy life and I have the ability to simplify it as well.

Last night, I felt inspired to make a simple priority list for my life.  I really want to give my best effort of each day to accomplishing a little of each priority.  As you notice, each priority does not have a million ‘to do’s’ after it.  Because once it does, it becomes stressful.  In celebration of simplicity, I want to leave my day open to inspiration and interpretation while still achieving my most important life-goals.  For me to feel balanced, I feel like I need to do the following and probably in this order:

• Relationships
• Health
• Spirituality
• Fun
• Education

I think some of my LDS friends might wonder why I have not listed spirituality first, as we are told when we put God first, all other things will fall into place.  Well, I think spirituality is so interwoven into my daily life that it actually is first, but in terms of ‘to do’s’ (immersing myself in the scriptures, prayers, service etc) that I can’t really feel very spiritual if the first 2 needs (relationships and health) aren’t met.  Everything else is off in my life if my relationships and/or my health are not functioning.

As you may notice, work or making money did not make the list at all.  I think that while work is a big part of my life and takes up a large part of my time, it is not necessary to living a good or purposeful life (for me anyway).  Work does play into education a bit (as when I am working, I am also learning new techniques and skills).  However, I wish work to be less a part of my life rather than more.

If you would like to see my explanation of each life priority, I will link to it here shortly…

I also would like to do a follow up post to see if I was able to stick to my priorities…  How do you prioritize your time?  We’d love to hear from you in the comments section!

(The photo above is attributed to Quotesnmiles.)

Continue reading]]> In a previous post, I went over different curriculums and homeschool basics that you will need to get started.  With this post I would like to share a few resources that have helped make our experience doing school at home fun and (mostly) free.

A few weeks ago I decided to take my first grader out of his charter school mid-year to do home school.  It was an agonizing decision, one met with lots of prayer and pondering.  His classroom environment at school was hostile and strict and he was feeling like he was a “bad boy” because his teacher was always telling him what he was doing wrong.  He was starting to have anxiety every day before school and feeling sick to his stomach just thinking about going.  Finally, I couldn’t watch the problem escalate and do nothing.  I talked to the principal, but nothing really improved.  A home school friend of mine encouraged me to take him out immediately.  I just needed a little push to get over the fear of starting.  Once I did, a huge burden was lifted from my shoulders and it was actually a very easy transition.

The staff at the school was sad to see our son leave.  I donated some supplies to them on his last day at school and I was talking to them about curriculums and they graciously offered to print up the rest of the year of Saxon math worksheets for our son for free!

Here’s what a typical day looks like at our house for our first grader (who is on a second grade level).  This is the order we do school in.  My son works independently on his workbooks and asks me if he has questions.  I encourage him to find out answers on his own and give him the resources to find the answers.

Homeschool Basics: All of these items can be purchased on Amazon and be at your door quickly.  You can have your kids starting home school this week!

• Saxon Math (free for us – provided by the school).  FYI – your local school is REQUIRED to provide you with materials they have and you need for free because they get money for your child from the government even though he is not attending school.  Our son spends about 45 minutes on Math and does 4-8 worksheets every day.  If you can’t get your Saxon Math worksheets or books for free, consider buying them used on ebay or see if you can check them out from your local library.  Our library has a PERC where you can check out 6 educational games and materials for children (free).  They have a lot of math games and workbooks.  We could use those resources exclusively for math if we wanted to make it free.  Do a google search for printable math worksheets for second grade and you can find a lot of practice sheets that you can print for free.
• Language Arts – I have tried a few different workbook series but I think the DK workbooks are the best in my opinion (Costco has some decent ones, and I did not like the Sylvan books).  The DK Workbooks are high quality and well thought out (and most importantly aren’t ridiculous like some of the workbooks for his age group).  As a way to enforce the parts of speech, we use Mad Libs and he can make up his own funny stories.
• Reading – We read a lot.  We have family scripture study every morning and we encourage our son to read the hard words.  He has magazine subscriptions that he got for Christmas (Zoobooks and the Friend.  I would also recommend Highlights).  These can be checked out from the library if the cost is a deterrent. Our library is a great resource and it’s free!  They have a free professional children’s story time every day (however our son is 7 and all of the other kids are pre-K).  We go to the library faithfully once a week and get lots of books.  We love fairy tales.  Sometimes we read them together and sometimes my son reads them on his own.  Our library has an entire children’s wing with only fairy tale picture books.  It’s amazing!  When I first started homeschooling, I went to my librarian and asked her if she has any suggestions.  She said she also homeschooled her children and gave me a list of resources.  I have learned it doesn’t hurt to ask!
• Spelling & Handwriting – My son writes 2 sentences about the books he reads every day.  We encourage him to write complete sentences and form correct letters.  We use this paper and then he draws a picture about the sentences he wrote.  There are entire curriculums based on reading books, so we feel like reading and writing helps him a lot with spelling.  We also do a “word of the day” which is well above his level.  We tell him the definition and how it’s spelled and then have him write it and we use the word throughout the day to reinforce the usage.
• Specialties (each one is one day per week and these could be optional) – Science, Art, Health/PE, Geography, Music, Fieldtrips.  I let my son work independently on most of these.  We check out Bill Nye from the library for Science on Monday.  Art is on Tuesday and we use pinterest to find something great.  See our Kids Crafts board here.  For PE, he does a gymnastics and tumbling class.  And, for Geography he loves the $1 app called Stack the States. We printed him up a US Map and a list of US capitals and he LOVES to play the Stack the States games and has learn quite a bit about US History and Geography from it.  My older daughter teaches my son piano and he practices on his own for 20 minutes per day.  We also attend (LDS) Church and he spends time there learning music. We take a simple fieldtrip once a week.  It’s a great way to get out of the house and do something hands on.  Everywhere we go, we tell them our situation and ask if there’s anything ‘behind the scenes’ we can see.  There always is!  For example, last week we had a free coupon for a local ceramics shop (paint your own).  We told her we were doing home school and asked if we could see the kiln.  She said sure and continued to tell us step by step how ceramics are made and fired and how everything works.  It was so great!  Because we went to her shop during school hours, we were the ONLY ones there so she could take time to explain how things work.  Sometimes we just ask facebook friends if they can do a lesson for our son on something they excel at.  They are usually happy to oblige.

I know this sounds like a lot of time and work, but it’s really not that much as long as you are organized.  My son gets his work done by lunch time (even with two 30 minute recesses included).  He can then prepare his own lunch, do his chores, and play for a while before his other siblings get home from school.  We are pretty easy-going with him and don’t have to spend time nagging him about doing his work.  He is motivated to get done so he can have the rest of the day free to play whatever he wants.

People ask me all the time, “How much time does it take to do homeschool?”  It takes about an hour a day of my time to homeschool my son.  We read for 30 minutes together,  it takes 20 minutes to get his worksheets organized and help with any questions he has, and then 10 minutes to correct his worksheets.  When we go to the library once a week it takes about an hour and fieldtrips are about 2 hours per week.  Specialties are probably about 2 hours per week (because some of them he does independently). So, on an average week, I spend about 10 hours with homeschool.  Just as a comparison, if you count the time I spent driving to/from his charter school and volunteering in the class it was about 7 hours per week.  Many Moms read 30 minutes with their children after school already (we did, but not consistently) so if you take that into account, it’s about the same amount of time spent.  Win-Win!

The cost of homeschool for us for this year was about $50 for workbooks and school supply-type materials!!!  I expect to spend about $100-$200 on field trips and other miscellaneous things (but those can be optional).  I consider this negligible since we donate school supplies to the school each year and they cost around $50 (plus we don’t have to buy backpacks or uniforms with homeschool).  We also don’t have to pay for gas driving to/from school anymore.

Are you doing homeschool?  Post a comment and let us know free resources you love!

Continue reading]]> I am writing this post, mostly just to have a place to put all of the ideas other people have shared with me and to have one place I can refer to for basic homeschool resources.

Last week (March 12th, 2014), we withdrew one of our 4 children mid-year from his first grade class at a local charter school.  There was a discipline difference between us and the teacher and our son was getting “sick” every day before school because when he went, he was made to feel like he was a “bad boy” (his words).  I am not saying he is perfect, but he is always conscious of having good behavior at home and when I helped in his school class, he was always very calm, helpful, and followed directions much more than some of the other kids who weren’t getting in trouble.  As parents, we tend to lean toward positive reinforcement instead of negative consequences.  It has been easy for us to do this because this method seems to “get though” to our kids.  Unfortunately, this wasn’t the same style he had at school and it was affecting him very much.  After much thought and prayer, we decided to withdraw him from school and do homeschool.

At first, I was terrified and had so many questions:  How would I have the time, my life is so overextended as it is?  Would I be able to give him a good education at home?  What curriculum would I use?  How do I start?

But now, I see the wisdom in this decision.  My child is able to work at his own pace, on his own level, and we have much more quality time together.  It is more work for me (maybe total of 1-2 hours per day), but it’s fun time that we spend together and it has brought us closer.

Here’s a list of helpful things I have found so far.  I am just starting and am by no means an expert, but I hope these things are helpful to someone out there!  We are LDS (Mormon), so there are some LDS curriculums and resources in this list.  Personally, I have shied away from Christian curriculums because I feel it’s a little too one-sided.  The nice thing about homeschool is if one thing is not right for you, you have the power to change it or to choose something else!

*UPDATE:  Our first week of homeschool went to well and was so easy!  I wish I had considered it earlier in the year.  Our son is able to do all of his school work by lunchtime and works independently most of the day!

Curriculum

PARENT-MADE CURRICULUM: There are 2 types of curriculum: make your own, or buy one that is already made.  The very first step should be to read this foundational book, “The Well Trained Mind”.  It is the Bible for homeschool families!  If you want to make your own currculum or get great ideas, this book will help you immensely.

Because we took our son out from school mid-year, we couldn’t get into the program we wanted, so I made my own and next year I plan to use a pre-made curriculum.  I initially used the Sylvan Workbooks as assignments for my son for school.  I did not like them at all.  I felt like the math and language arts were confusing and didn’t use examples of things little kids would know about.  I then switched to DK Publishing’s books.  They are cheaper and I like them MUCH better.  They are much higher quality and have better questions and math problems.  If you want to make your own curriculum, I would suggest the workbooks from DK.  You can also find free printable worksheets online if needed.  However, I find worksheets from books generally offer a more consistent approach.

If you are dedicated to making your own curriculum work, this free site will help you immensely.  By the way, I am not saying one way or the other is better, there are pros and cons to each (making your own and using a pre-made curriculum)

Children learn so much by watching you.  I let my son tag along with all of the things I do and I teach him about everything possible.  We have time to do a learning field trip once a week, read together every day, play games, and go to the library once a week.  At this point, my other kids are BEGGING me to take them our of school too because they see how much fun he is having while learning.

ALREADY-MADE CURRICULUM: Here are a few already-made curriculums that I felt were fantastic.  We seriously considered all of these, but made the decision to go with Harmony Education (only for Utah and Idaho) for the 2015-2016 school year.

1. Great Books Academy – Free Guide – Uses great literature as the foundation to your child’s education.  They will read a grade-level book, write a paper (or sentences if they are younger) about what they read, learn history and geography from the parent while they are reading the book, etc.  They also have suggestions for other subjects here. This should cover all aspects of learning for them and makes learning cohesive, fun, at at their own pace.  We very much considered this curriculum, but felt like we needed something where our kids could work a little more independently.  It appears there is no cost for Great Books Academy unless you are wanting college credit.
2. The Family Schoolhouse – Price $500 – We are Mormon (LDS), and seriously considered this program.  The concept is like a one-room-schoolhouse and is designed to teach all of your children the same thing (from the text book provided) and then have the children work independently on their own level.  I love the concept of it, but our kids are pretty far apart in age that it didn’t really make perfect sense for us.  One in Junior High, 2 in Elementary School 3 grades apart, and then a baby.  I felt like the gap was too large for it to work really well.  The nice thing is, you can use these curriculum over and over because your kids will grow up and be able to do the harder assignments the next time they get to it.  They put out a new set of curriculum about every year as well.  As with Great Books, I also felt like I could adapt learning to their different ages on my own if needed.
3. Harmony Education – Free – Harmony Ed is only in Utah and Idaho.  It offers so many choices and flexibility and can help you work with your child at his/her own pace and let’s you choose which curriculum you would prefer for each child (they provide the curriculum free of charge).  This is the program we chose to go with.  They also are affiliated with a local charter school and children can go meet up with other kids at their own age for science or other fun classes.  This helps a lot with socialization.  They also provide each family with $300 to buy educational supplies as well as reimbursement for local music and foreign language lessons.
4. K-12 – Free (Funded by the school district) – This program is for you if you want EXACTLY the same work as your child would have in public school, but you want him/her to do it at home under your supervision.  This is an online school run by the school district.  The more I looked into it, the more I knew I would be frustrated with this program because your child is expected to attend 180 days of the year.  If they are on a learning vacation, they still need to make up missed homework.  And, it is very rigorous and you will need to be a big part of your child’s day to stay on top of all of the assignments.  It takes a lot of flexibility out of home school, but many people need that structure.  I have a friend who loves K-12, but I have heard a lot of complaints as well.

I am out of time to work today, but I will continue this post next week here.

Continue reading]]> Once you get the basic technique down, it’s really easy to swaddle your baby. We have photos and video to help you learn how to swaddle a newborn!

STEP 1:  LAY BLANKET OUT LIKE A DIAMOND

Using a good sized blanket, lay out your blanket in a diamond shape on a flat surface.  Fold down the top corner.

STEP 2 : LAY BABY DOWN

Lay the baby down on top of the corner you turned under.

STEP 3: FOLD UP

Fold up the bottom part of the triangle to fit to the baby’s toes.

STEP 4: FOLD SIDES & TUCK

Pull arms in and fold one side over and tuck under baby’s back so it’s tight.  Then fold the other side over and wrap around tightly.

Here’s a how to video I made:

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Items used in video

Fold Up Baby Bathtub that fits in the kitchen sink… Works great so you don’t have to bend over the tub in your bathroom.  I have been known to cram this into the dishwasher even!  I have had my dark blue sink bathtub for 12 years and I love it.  You can also put it in the bathtub if that’s what you choose.
Cradle Cap Sponge for washing body and hair. Or if you would rather use a washcloth, we like these organic cotton ones.  I stick it in the dishwasher to clean it.
Fragrance Free Baby Wash so the baby doesn’t get rashes from fragrances.
Cetaphil Lotion to help with dryness.
A friend made us the hooded towel, but if we were going to buy one, we would get this one.
I love these bath water scoops for directing the water away from their eyes. It’s a very controlled way to pour because it has a spout. He can use it as a bath toy later as well.  I stick it in the dishwasher to clean it.
If you have a little boy, you may find the peepee teepee very useful so you don’t get “squirted” when giving him a bath.

Hopefully this helps you learn how to bathe a newborn.  If you have any questions, please post a comment and I will answer them to the best of my ability.

Continue reading]]> I have always wanted to learn how to do flat iron curls.  They look so easy once you get the hang of it, but I just couldn’t get the motion down, so I took a trip to my neighbor Dana’s house to have her teach me how to do easy flat iron curls.  We took a video so you could learn too!  Please let me know if you have any questions and I would be happy to answer them.

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We made these cute heart watermelon shapes for dinner one night and the kids thought it was so great!  I think they taste better to the kids when they are in a different shape than anticipated.  They are very simple to make and you can use the waste around the edges for your next smoothie.

Using a large cutting board and sharp knife, simply cut the ends of the watermelon so you have a flat bottom (don’t we all wish we had a flat bottom!), then cut the watermelon in slices like a gigantic O.  Then use a small-ish cookie cutter to cut out the heart shapes.  Serve and enjoy.

This would be really fun for a fruit salad or just for a cute side dish.